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斯文宝宝诞生记:生产篇

【注:这是我老婆的客串博文。】

熬啊熬,终于在各种不舒服中熬到了37周宝宝足月,就等宝宝发动了。可惜宝宝都一直好淡定好淡定,到了39周多都还没动静。别人预产期比我后面的人都生了,我真是淡定不下去了,怕宝宝在肚子里面待久了胎盘老化缺氧脐带打结之类的。刚好我表姐和朋友们都是38周,39+2,39+4生的,可我到了39+4,一点反应都没有,连假性宫缩都没有了,心里好难过,忍不住哭了,还跟老公说下周看医生一定叫她催产了,剖腹也行,再不生我就要得抑郁症了。

事情偏偏这么巧,9月10日,39+5,我上厕所的时候发现见红了。我知道宝宝离我不远了,赶快打电话让老公回家。夜里凌晨12点40,9月11日,39+6,我被肚子痛醒了。立马睡不着起来数宫缩。从一点到三点,开始是准时的8分钟一次,后来就渐渐消失了。算了算了,我失望地上床睡觉了。到了早上八九点,我又被肚子痛醒,这时候又是很准时的十分钟一次。吃完早饭,肚子越来越痛了,就像每八分钟打一针青霉素,每次打一分钟一样。到了下午三点,肚子更痛了,而且频率到了5分钟一次,立马让老公开车送我去了医院。

到了医院,幸运地发现我的产科医生当天值班。医生先是安排到assessment room做了胎心监护。这时候宫缩已经很厉害了,痛的时候我已经忍不住用手拍床才能熬过去。等胎心监护完成,护士让我泡了个按摩浴,缓解了一些疼痛。接着医生来作了内检,已经开了4指半,我立马要求上无痛。接下来护士带我到了产房,其实就是自己的一个房间,有一张床,可以睡,也是生产用的,还有一个沙发供爸爸睡,一个小台子是宝宝出生后睡的地方,另外还有独立卫生间可以洗澡,而且这些都是免费的,真好。倒霉的是,那时候正遇上饭点,麻醉师久久不来,我的肚子已经疼得很厉害了,大概三分钟一次,痛起来已经像用车门狠狠夹十指,钻心地疼,每次疼都忍不住砸桌子,话也说不出来。。。一个多小时以后,麻醉师姗姗而来。上了无痛,顿时感觉上了天堂啊。什么疼痛都感觉不到了,宫缩的时候只是有肚子紧的感觉而已。

就这样到了9月12日凌晨一点左右,预产期当天,我感到一股巨大的压力,像是什么东西压着我,逼着我用力把这个东西排出来。医生来检查,说是宫口开全可以生了。立马开始push。push的时候要憋一口气,然后像拉大便一样用劲,不能松气,一股气完了之后要再深呼吸一次继续push,直到这阵宫缩过去。这时候我孕期不锻炼的后果来了,没有力气啊,push了几次我就感觉精疲力尽了。虽然每次医生都说很好,老公也说看到头发了,但我以为这边的人都喜欢说鼓励的话而已,其实我一点进展都没有,好绝望的感觉。绝望归绝望,都到这地步总不能不生了拉去剖腹吧?还是接着用力。不知道过了多久,房间里突然多了很多人,有个护士开始帮我死命地压肚子。说实话,我觉得她压得好好,宝宝一下子下去了好多。就这样push了两三次之后,我只觉得肚子一松,就听见了宝宝的哭声,然后护士立马把宝宝放到我的肚子上。也没有想象中的激动,只觉得很好神奇,这个肉忽忽的小东西就是我的宝宝:)2012年9月12日凌晨2点半,我的斯文宝宝诞生啦!

可惜宝宝由于羊水没有挤干净,哭的时候老是呼噜呼噜的,医生就把她拿去NICU观察了一个小时。据老公说,宝宝在NICU就张嘴到处找吃的呢。还好没多久,宝宝就抱回来了,我抱着宝宝,长得很秀气很可爱,开心。

斯文宝宝现在快两个月了,是个健康活泼的小宝宝。三周的时候就已经会有意识地跟爸爸妈妈笑了,八周的时候趴着可以把下巴和胸抬起来了,可乖啦!爸爸妈妈希望她健康成长,就这么一个小小的心愿,相信她一定可以实现!

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